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Never idealize others. They will never live up to your expectations. Don’t over-analyse your relationships. Stop playing games. A growing relationship can only be nurtured by genuineness. ~ Leo F. Buscaglia ~ [Source]

Humans are never satisfied. We want the perfect job, spouse, family and many other things. There are times when one can analyse too much into a relationship and cry the heart out when it didn’t work the way one was thinking.

A woman can think that her man has the perfect body, job and family. Her man will understand her most intimate needs and do anything for her. She thinks that he is the right man and doesn’t see the faults. When he does something that is out of character to her, she is angry and leaves him to search for the ideal man. A man who is a shining knight in armour who will be there whenever she needs him.

This isn’t a way towards a healthy relationship. It’s about being true to yourself in a relationship and building a healthy one at that. Accept and be happy that you have a lover. Men may idealise about the women having a perfect body, a great cook and able to please him after work.

When one is being idealised, it is stressful as one isn’t that ideal person that the partner has in mind. If one isn’t the one who likes to lavish grand surprises on the other, but the partner wants such lavish surprises, the relationship needs to take a re-look at. What is the main reason why you chose to be with him or her?

Was it for love or just because you can shape him/her? Are you idealising others?

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