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Sex is the most fun you can have without laughing. ~ Woody Allen ~ [Source]

Our parents reminded us time and again never to have sex before marriage. After marriage, we can have all the fun that the intercourse brings. That is provided both parties work out the best positions that will bring the best result; orgasm.

There are times when couples go into a major fight and ignore each other for days. That is too much because you may not remember why the both of you are so angry with each other. If you have not talked to each other for 4 days, it’s time to do something. You can’t avoid each other and wait for the other to say. “I’m sorry.”

It starts from you. A change can be initiated by you. Not others. You can only change yourself. Remember the phrase “Kiss and make up”? Start the talk. If the other party is fuming and refuses to listen, send a letter stating your feelings and why you did it. You may not see the other viewpoint, state that in the letter too.

Once the both of you have sorted out your feelings, make up. Take this chance to spice up your love lives again. You used to spend time together by cuddling each other in front of the TV before the kids came into the picture. Do that.

Get a babysitter to help out for a couple of hours. Or get either parents to look after the kids overnight. Do something slow and appreciate each other’s bodies. Do it sensually, excite each other. There is fun to be found. You can close all the curtains and do it anywhere in the house.

Light some aromatic candles if you have some. Put on that sexy babydoll, your husband loved to see you wearing, you haven’t worn since the kids arrived. Celebrate your loves. Let each other know how much you miss talking to each other and love them for their thoughtfulness.

Love is wonderful. A marriage made with love is even more wonderful. Get to know each other better. Your hearts have been given to each other. Treasure each other. The right partner is the one who will stay with you through thick and thin.

If you need help in new positions, try Karma Sutra. It’s an ancient art. Perhaps the both of you have been doing a few positions without realising it. Remember to have fun with each other again.

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